{"id":3799,"date":"2010-05-10T01:00:00","date_gmt":"2010-05-10T01:00:00","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2010-05-10T01:00:00","modified_gmt":"2010-05-10T01:00:00","slug":"ar-skanus-pirstelis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pasveik.lt\/lt\/sveikatos-ir-medicinos-naujienos\/ar-skanus-pirstelis\/3799\/","title":{"rendered":"Ar skanus pir\u0161telis?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align:justify\">Gra\u017eu \u017ei\u016br\u0117ti \u012f visai ma\u017eut\u012f k\u016bdik\u012f, \u010diulpiant\u012f pir\u0161tel\u012f. Bet kai tai daro<br \/>\ntrej\u0173 ir vyresnis vaikutis, jau tampa neramu.<\/p>\n<p>Konsultuoja vaik\u0173 ir paaugli\u0173 psichiatr\u0117 Goda Ba\u010dien\u0117<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u010ciulpti \u201ei\u0161mok\u0117&#8221; gamta<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ultragarsu atliktose nuotraukose matome, kad dar negim\u0119s k\u016bdikis moka \u010diulpti<br \/>\npir\u0161tel\u012f ar kum\u0161tel\u012f. Taip gamtos sutvarkyta, mat \u010diulpdamas ma\u017eylis nusiramina.<br \/>\nBe to, tai i\u0161mok\u0119s, sugeba \u017e\u012fsti kr\u016bt\u012f ir pavalgyti. Brukti rankyt\u0119 \u012f burnyt\u0119<br \/>\nyra nat\u016bralus judesys, jo nereikia nei skatinti, nei slopinti. Geros raidos<br \/>\nk\u016bdikis aktyviai \u010diulpia ma\u017edaug iki met\u0173, v\u0117liau \u0161is sugeb\u0117jimas pama\u017eu<br \/>\nslopsta. Taip tur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti, bet kai kurie ma\u017eyliai ir toliau nei\u0161siver\u010dia be<br \/>\npir\u0161telio burnyt\u0117je. Kartais taip \u012fnirtingai j\u012f \u010diulpia, kad atsiranda \u017eaizd\u0173.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nusiraminimo b\u016bdas<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Kartais labai sunku suprasti, ko nori ma\u017eas \u017emogutis, ypa\u010d jei dar nemoka<br \/>\npasakyti. Galb\u016bt jo kelnyt\u0117s \u0161lapios, o mamyt\u0117, manydama, kad alkanas, ima j\u012f<br \/>\nmaitinti. O gal jam nuobodu vienam \u017eaisti ir laukti, kol mama sutvarkys namus.<br \/>\nJei ma\u017eylis nepasitiki savo j\u0117gomis, mano, kad vis tiek nebus suprastas, bando<br \/>\npats save nuraminti, pavyzd\u017eiui, \u010diulpdamas nyk\u0161t\u012f. Tai yra vienas sav\u0119s<br \/>\n\u010di\u016b\u010diavimo b\u016bd\u0173.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vietoj \u010diulptuko<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Pir\u0161telis keliauja \u012f burnyt\u0119 ir tuomet, jei ma\u017eiukas laiku nesugeb\u0117jo i\u0161siskirti<br \/>\nsu \u010diulptuku. Galb\u016bt jis dar jau\u010dia poreik\u012f stimuliuoti burnyt\u0119. Tarkim,<br \/>\n\u010diulptuk\u0105 mama i\u0161met\u0117, o pir\u0161telis visada yra \u010dia pat, kai prireikia. \u012eprasta,<br \/>\nkad ma\u017eyliai iki trej\u0173 metuk\u0173 vaik\u0161to burnyt\u0119 \u201eu\u017esiki\u0161\u0119&#8221; pir\u0161teliu. Ta\u010diau tai<br \/>\nn\u0117ra labai gerai, nes d\u0117l \u0161io \u012fpro\u010dio vaikutis nepastebi aplinkos ir negali<br \/>\nbendrauti su t\u0117vais ar bendraam\u017eiais. Jis u\u017esi\u0117m\u0119s tik savo pir\u0161teliu ir<br \/>\n\u010diulpimo suteikiamais poj\u016b\u010diais. Taigi tai ne tik medicinin\u0117 b\u0117da, kai vaikutis<br \/>\ngali iki kraujo nusi\u010diulpti pir\u0161t\u0105, bet ir psichologin\u0117.<\/p>\n<p><strong>K\u0105 daryti?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>* Pabandykite sudominti vaikut\u012f kuo nors, kas nukreipt\u0173 d\u0117mes\u012f. Prigalvokite<br \/>\n\u012fvairi\u0173 \u017eaidim\u0173, kad rankyt\u0117s b\u016bt\u0173 u\u017eimtos, vaikutis neli\u016bd\u0117t\u0173 ir neb\u016bt\u0173<br \/>\nporeikio \u010diulpti pir\u0161tel\u012f. Jei \u0161io \u012fpro\u010dio ma\u017eylis neatsikratys, gali \u010diulpti<br \/>\npir\u0161t\u0105 ir lankydamas mokykl\u0105. Svarbu kartu su savo at\u017eal\u0117le ie\u0161koti kitoki\u0173<br \/>\nb\u016bd\u0173, kurie pad\u0117t\u0173 \u012fveikti \u012ftamp\u0105 ar nuobodul\u012f. Mamai reik\u0117t\u0173 j\u012f i\u0161mokyti<br \/>\npasakyti \u201ebijau&#8221;, stipriai prisiglausti ir nusiraminti.<br \/>\n* Vaikutis gali \u012fprasti jumis manipuliuoti ir imti \u010diulpti pir\u0161t\u0105 tada, kai<br \/>\nnor\u0117s i\u0161pe\u0161ti kokios nors naudos. Paprastai daugiausia d\u0117mesio skiriame tada,<br \/>\nkai ma\u017eylis netinkamai elgiasi. O kai ramiai varto knygutes ar stato pil\u012f, jo<br \/>\ntarsi nepastebime. Tod\u0117l labai svarbu savo pypliukui skirti d\u0117mesio tada, kai<br \/>\ngerai nusiteik\u0119s ir ne\u010diulpia pir\u0161telio. B\u016btina surasti laiko ma\u017eiukui pagirti,<br \/>\npasisodinti ant keli\u0173, pamyluoti. Tuomet jis bandys ilginti \u0161iuos geruosius<br \/>\nbendravimo periodus.<br \/>\n* Iki ketveri\u0173 metuk\u0173 vaiku\u010diui labai svarbu re\u017eimas. Pir\u0161tel\u012f \u010diulpti gali ir<br \/>\ni\u0161 nuovargio ar pernelyg daug emocij\u0173, pavyzd\u017eiui, jei per ilgai u\u017esib\u016bname<br \/>\nsve\u010diuose ir nesp\u0117jame laiku paguldyti. Kasdienis re\u017eimas teikia saugumo.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gra\u017eu \u017ei\u016br\u0117ti \u012f visai ma\u017eut\u012f k\u016bdik\u012f, \u010diulpiant\u012f pir\u0161tel\u012f. Bet kai tai daro trej\u0173 ir vyresnis vaikutis, jau tampa neramu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3800,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[27329],"tags":[],"site":[],"post_item_type":[27344],"class_list":["post-3799","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vaiko-psichologija"],"acf":{"post_sites":false},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pasveik.lt\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3799","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pasveik.lt\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pasveik.lt\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pasveik.lt\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pasveik.lt\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3799"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.pasveik.lt\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3799\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pasveik.lt\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3800"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pasveik.lt\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3799"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pasveik.lt\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3799"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pasveik.lt\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3799"},{"taxonomy":"site","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pasveik.lt\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/site?post=3799"},{"taxonomy":"post_item_type","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pasveik.lt\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/post_item_type?post=3799"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}